40th anniversary gift ideas: Ruby

Traditional and modern lists agree on this one.

Ruby is the stone of passion. Forty years and still going.

Our pick for the 40th

A ruby ring

Set in the metal they already wear.

Ruby · $150 and upFind it
For the card
Forty years, and you still make me blush.

5 more for year 40

Budget
They're into
  • Ruby earrings

    Small and deep red.

    $150 and upFind it
  • A red Dutch oven

    Ruby red, forty more years of dinners.

    $150 and upFind it
  • A red glass decanter

    For the ruby port.

    $50 to $150Find it
  • Forty red roses

    One for every year. Hand-deliver them.

    $50 to $150
  • Red velvet slippers

    Comfortable, and a little bit fancy.

    Under $50Find it

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What is the 40th anniversary gift?

Ruby. The traditional and modern lists agree for year 40.

What's a good 40th anniversary gift under $50?

Red velvet slippers. It fits the theme and comes in under $50.

What should I write in a 40th anniversary card?

Tie it to the theme, then say one thing only the two of you would know: a place, a joke, something from this year. To start: “Forty years, and you still make me blush.”

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