30th anniversary gift ideas: Pearl and diamond

Traditional list: pearl. Modern list: diamond.

A pearl grows from a single grain, one layer at a time.

Our pick for the 30th

A pearl strand

The classic thirtieth gift.

Traditional: Pearl · $150 and upFind it
For the card
Thirty years, built one layer at a time.

5 more for year 30

Budget
They're into

PearlTraditional · 3

  • Pearl stud earrings

    For every day.

    $50 to $150Find it
  • Mother-of-pearl cheese knives

    For the next dinner party.

    Under $50Find it
  • An oyster dinner out

    Find the best oyster bar in driving distance.

    $50 to $150

DiamondModern · 2

  • A diamond eternity band

    A ring of stones with no end.

    $150 and upFind it
  • Diamond earrings

    The upgrade from year ten.

    $150 and upFind it

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What is the 30th anniversary gift?

The traditional 30th anniversary gift is pearl. The modern one is diamond. Pick whichever gives you a better idea. Nobody checks.

What's a good 30th anniversary gift under $50?

Mother-of-pearl cheese knives. It fits the theme and comes in under $50.

What should I write in a 30th anniversary card?

Tie it to the theme, then say one thing only the two of you would know: a place, a joke, something from this year. To start: “Thirty years, built one layer at a time.”

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