11th anniversary gift ideas: Steel and fashion jewelry

Traditional list: steel. Modern list: fashion jewelry.

Steel is iron that's been through the fire. Eleven years does that.

Our pick for the 11th

A proper chef's knife

The one tool every home cook wants.

Traditional: Steel · $50 to $150Find it
For the card
Eleven years through the fire, and stronger for every one of them.

15 more for year eleven

Budget
They're into

SteelTraditional · 9

  • Stainless steel cookware

    The set that finally replaces the scratched pans.

    $150 and upFind it
  • A steel watch

    A bracelet watch for every day.

    $150 and upFind it
  • Insulated steel tumblers

    Coffee stays hot on the drive.

    Under $50Find it
  • A steel tongue drum

    Anyone can play it on the first try.

    Under $50Find it
  • A two-burner camp stove

    Breakfast at the lake.

    $50 to $150Find it
  • A double-walled steel French press

    Coffee for two that stays hot through the second cup.

    Under $50Find it
  • A cocktail shaker set

    Shaker, jigger and strainer. Learn one drink together and make it yours.

    Under $50Find it
  • A charcoal kettle grill

    Weekend burgers for the next ten years.

    $150 and upFind it
  • A multitool

    The one in the glovebox that gets used every week.

    Under $50Find it

Fashion jewelryModern · 6

  • Stacking rings

    Add one every year.

    Under $50Find it
  • Statement earrings

    A pair they wouldn't buy themselves.

    Under $50Find it
  • Cufflinks

    For the wedding season you're about to have.

    Under $50Find it
  • A charm bracelet with one charm

    Add a charm every year from here on.

    Under $50Find it
  • A turquoise pendant

    Some anniversary lists suggest turquoise for year eleven, and it goes with nearly everything.

    Under $50Find it
  • A signet ring

    A classic that works for anyone, engraved with an initial.

    $50 to $150Find it

Wedding day, first date, whatever you count. It stays on this phone.

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What is the 11th anniversary gift?

The traditional 11th anniversary gift is steel. The modern one is fashion jewelry. Pick whichever gives you a better idea. Nobody checks.

What's a good 11th anniversary gift under $50?

Insulated steel tumblers, a steel tongue drum or a double-walled steel French press. Each one fits the theme and comes in under $50.

What should I write in a 11th anniversary card?

Tie it to the theme, then say one thing only the two of you would know: a place, a joke, something from this year. To start: “Eleven years through the fire, and stronger for every one of them.”

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